Everyone has love, so do I. There are many forms of love such as: the love from parents to children/children to parents, teachers to students/students to teachers, husband to wife/wife to husband, grandparents to grandchildren/grandchildren to grandparents, boyfriend to girlfriend/girlfriend to boyfriend etc. And all you need is love because love always brings happiness. Once you are in love, you are like a love drug. You are so addicted to someone that you love, you always want to stick around and you want to know every small detail about them. Love sounds so beautiful, everyone seems to like it but not at all. Love sometimes brings joy and sometimes brings sadness or depression. No matter how hurt it is, we all want love. But how about the worse relationship? I mean the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. Stop it! You better end your bad relationship immediately.
1. Not Worth It
Some people are so devoted into their love but what they receive is tears. Why you have to liv in tearful world? Your devoted actions are worth more than this several times, you deserve what you had done. But it contradicts from your expectation, you should get going because the person doesn’t know your value.
2. Love Sick
Love not always bring happiness or fun time, it sometimes brings tears. Love makes you sick. If the one that you love betray you, this will affect you mentally. You probably feel upset and don’t want to walk away but doing this, it is not the right choice. You better put your best effort to end your relationship from here. I bet you may feel upset for several days. But once you walk away, sooner you will feel better. Give yourself to live in peaceful world, move on!
3. Abusive person?
Abusive can be either mentally or physically. If your partner is an abusive person, don’t hesitate to walk away. In some physical cases, your partner probably slaps or punches you. This may result to violent. It seems to be okay now, but I don’t think it is an ordinary case for later on. Don’t try to ignore this case and think it is a small problem. Once the person slaps or punches you once, there might be second or third times. Don’t hurt your body, it doesn’t worth it.
4. Communication Might Be a Sign!
Do you know that communication between lovers is so important? Yes, it is so important. To keep your relationship healthy and last-long, you need to have good communication. If you partner fail in communication (talk less, don’t want to fight back or ignore), it is a sign that the person is too exhausted and they want to give you up now. And it’s time for you to get going. You don’t need the direct action, communication is the hint to understand.
5. Cheating Type?
Why do you have to stay with someone that cheating on you from time to time? Let her/her go. Cheating people be like, “Give me second chance please!” Then, you give him/her second chance but they still cheat. So what? Cheaters still cheat. If they cheat once, it’s okay but if they cheat twice, it’s not okay. Twice becomes thrice and more. If you are in this kind of relationship, you better stop now because it makes you feel painful. I know it is hurt but you better walk away than stay in this painful hell world of relationship. Don’t hesitate, I bet you may find a better person than this cheater.
6. Asking For Chances?
As mentioned above, if there is second chance, there will be third or fourth chance all the way long. I think second chance is not that bad but second chance don’t always work. If you keep repeating your mistake, third or fourth chance cannot help you because your second chance is not working already. In the end, you still have to walk away because you cannot make it.
7. Love Yourself
You better go and love yourself more because when you love yourself, you will live in harmony. People may come and go. Some of them may give you happiness but some of them may leave you scars. Don’t put someone else’s needs before yours, it almost always does no good for you. No one can determine your happiness better than you do, so your happiness is in your hands. Grab it because no one love you more than you love yourself.